Using the Vortex to Balance Relationships

  5 Minute Read | Every human being is a living vortex of energy; master this and you master your life and relationships ... but, what happens if you go astray?

We Are Living Vortices of Energy

AN INTRODUCTION TO STRENGTHEN RELATIONSHIPS

Our relationships with our spouses, partners, family or friends, can suffer greatly if we ourselves are out of balance. Our outer world serves as a perfect mirror of our inner energies—balanced or imbalanced. When we feel a void deep within, we often try to fill it externally through poor choices, toxic relationships, or escapist behaviors or attachment disorders. This only digs the hole deeper, creating chaos instead of harmony. This imbalance will lead to going to the dark side in one form of destruction or another. Once understood, they can be a great turning point for self-healing and relationship strengthening. 

How do we attain balance and harmony and work through our issues to heal and clear ourselves enough to experience a healthy relationship with ourselves and others? Understanding basic archetypal systems can help identify and bring clarity. The following is an introduction to vortex energies, like chakras, that exist within you, and within each relationship you have. Mastering this will give you a healthy foundation and confidence.

Mastering Your Energy Vortexes

THE MAGICAL KEY THAT UNLOCKS HARMONY AND BALANCE

Life’s stresses often leave us saying, “Life sucks” — literally, as energy drains downward in an entropic “brain drain” vortex, like water swirling into a sink.

The secret to lasting happiness and love?
Unlock free entropy —
the upward, syntropic flow that restores our natural higher state. 

What is a Vortex?

In fluid dynamics, a vortex is a spinning region of flow around a central axis, seen in coffee cream swirls, smoke rings, whirlpools, tornadoes, or hurricanes. All vortexes have a core where pressure and speed concentrate. They can move, stretch, twist—and in life, they appear as repeating patterns or rituals. 

Negative Vs. Postivie Vortices in Day-to-Day Life

• Negative Vortices - Trap us (e.g., repeatedly attracting harmful relationships
• Positive Vortices - Uplift us (e.g., daily workouts, meditations and prayers, healthy rituals).

Deidre Madsen's Happily Inner After Book/Workbook — and its 15 exercises — help you find the eye of your personal core vortex to master the energy and claim your own “Happily Inner After.” 

The Two Main Vortex Types

NATURE'S TWO FUNDAMENTAL LAWS OF THERMODYNAMIC SPINS
UP-FLOW (SYNTROPY) VS. DOWN-FLOW (ENTROPY)

 

LEFT HEMISPHERE

Masculine Yang Archetype
Syntropy – Up-Flow

CONNECTION EXERCISE

Visualize energy flowing up a mountain peak (^)—
the top half of a diamond—spiraling clockwise
(like a “9”) in electric upward motion. This masculine
yang energy is electric, affecting our outer physical
world and “doing” actions.

OPPOSITES EXERCISE

MASCULINE EXPERIENCING THE FEMININE
WARRIOR RETURNING HOME
Imagine coming home exhausted from battle. A divine
feminine muse welcomes you with open arms, firelight,
and nourishment. You collapse into safety. Feel the
deep peace, rest, and love. Where does it live in your body?

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RIGHT HEMISPHERE

Feminine Yin Archetype
Entropy – Down-Flow

CONNECTION EXERCISE

Imagine the bottom half of the diamond (V)—a chalice,
bowl, or cave—spiraling downward like a “6” in magnetic in-flow.
This feminine yin energy is magnetic, affecting our inner
emotional world and “being.”

OPPOSITES EXERCISE

FEMININE EXPERIENCING THE MASCULINE
GODDESS ENTERING THE CASTLE
Imagine birthing your child, then being whisked to a secure
dream home built with love and protection. Feel
cherished, safe, energized, and inspired to create.
Where does this buoyant expansion live in your body?

The hemispheres are critically interdependent — you cannot have one without the other

When the Pendulum Swings Too Far – Going to the Dark Side

When chaos in the entropic side of life our mind
our brain gets too great it begins to form a pressure on the
negative entropy which creates unnatural structure.
- Dan Winter

Four Common Examples of Imbalance

Stepping down from the extremes shown above, and tho less severe in application, following are examples of imbalance that may be challenging your relationships today:

• 🗲 THE THRILL SEEKER | The daredevil lost in extreme sports or endless spectatorship. Physical activity is healthy—until it becomes avoidance. TOO MUCH MASCULINE
• 🎨THE CREATIVELY CONSUMED | Constantly shifting projects, décor, or self-expression in a whirlwind of creation. Creativity nourishes us—yet excess signals imbalance. TOO MUCH MASCULINE
• 🗣 THE LOQUACIOUS ONE | Talking endlessly about self—feelings, fears, dreams, accomplishments—with a narcissistic edge. Philosophical reflection is valuable—too much reveals escapism. TOO MUCH FEMININE
• 💭 THE FANTASIZER | Cocooned in daydreams, fairy tales, or marathon gaming sessions. Imagination sparks joy—overindulgence keeps us from the present. TOO MUCH FEMININE
  
  

What Unites the Four Archetypes?

All four examples embody the Escape (Avoidance) Artist archetype — avoiding emotional, mental, or spiritual responsibility. Individuals with an avoidant or detached (escapism) attachment style have difficulty forming and maintaining deep emotional connections with others.

True maturity means being fully present in the “now,” without hiding in distractions. In moderation, a movie or hobby refreshes us — excess drains our life force.

LACK OF NEG-ENTROPY (SELF-ORDER) ALLOWS ENTROPIC DEGRADATION

SELF-RESPONSIBILITY IS KEY!

Self-responsibility is the key. We are responsible for everything that happens in our lives — responsible, but not guilt-ridden or shamed. 

Without neg-entropy and self-order, entropy leads to degradation.

The eye of the needle is narrow.

These are the footsteps of the natural King and Queen Archetypes living within and stepping stones on the path to the inner Kingdom.

May our hearts weigh as light as a feather.

The Path to Sovereignty and Victory

MASCULINE DOING FEMININE BEING ... WITH SELF-RESPONSIBILITY AND INTEGRITY

By understanding that the Feminine brings calming magnetism resting/being and that the Masculine brings uplifting electric action doing — masculine doing vs. feminine being — you integrate all parts of yourself.

You move from victim of repeating imbalances to victorious creator of balanced vortex energy.

The corpus callosum becomes your bridge. Inner gazing via third-eye visualization shifts your inner world, and thus your outer reality. You gain sovereignty, liberate fearlessly expressed love, and step into vivid, dream-fulfilling life. 

We are a body of Light and Sound: energy, frequency, vibration.

Through the corpus callosum bridge and the midbrain trinity, by re-awakening and embracing the divine masculine and feminine within, we become super-luminal suprahumans — the 369. 

We are walking sacred sites… living temples. We never needed to rely only on external Earth grids. Through our own axiatonal and ley lines, we are already connected to all sacred points in the universe. When we are balanced, bridged, and aligned — we are whole-minded. 

“Be you transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:02 

Blessings and Harmony,

Deidre 🌸💕

Ready to Balance Your Own Vortex?

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